If your husband or wife dies, you may wonder if you can receive Social Security benefits based on your spouse’s contribution to Social Security.  

This is especially important if your spouse made more money that you did, or if your spouse was the sole earner and you did not work.

Many people worry that if they cannot receive Social Security based on their spouse’s earnings, they may not be able to get Social Security.

For most people, here is what you need to know to answer the question whether you can get Social Security survivors’ benefits after your spouse dies:

Most survivor’s benefit claims depend on meeting one of two requirements:

1. You have to be 60 years old, or
2. You have to be at least 50 years old and be found disabled by Social Security.

Because there are many other requirement to receive benefits as a surviving spouse, I am providing the entire text of 20 CFR 404.335 “How do I become entitled to widow’s or widower’s benefits?” I have reformatted it to make for easier reading.

We will find you entitled to benefits as the widow or widower of a person who died fully insured if you meet the requirements in paragraphs (a) through (e) of this section:

(a) You are the insured’s widow or widower based upon a relationship described in §§404.345 through 404.346, and you meet one of the conditions in paragraphs (a)(1) through (4) of this section:

(1) Your relationship to the insured as a wife or husband lasted for at least 9 months immediately before the insured died.

(2) Your relationship to the insured as a wife or husband did not last 9 months before the insured died, but you meet one of the conditions in paragraphs (a)(2)(i) through (iv) of this section.

(i) At the time of your marriage the insured was reasonably expected to live for 9 months, and the death of the insured was accidental. The death is accidental if it was caused by an event that the insured did not expect, if it was the result of bodily injuries received from violent and external causes, and if, as a direct result of these injuries, death occurred not later than 3 months after the day on which the bodily injuries were received. An intentional and voluntary suicide will not be considered an accidental death.
(ii) At the time of your marriage the insured was reasonably expected to live for 9 months, and the death of the insured occurred in the line of duty while he or she was serving on active duty as a member of the uniformed services as defined in §404.1019.
(iii) At the time of your marriage the insured was reasonably expected to live for 9 months, and you had been previously married to the insured for at least 9 months.
(iv) The insured had been married prior to his or her marriage to you and the prior spouse was institutionalized during the marriage to the insured due to mental incompetence or similar incapacity. During the period of the prior spouse’s institutionalization, the insured, as determined based on evidence satisfactory to the Agency, would have divorced the prior spouse and married you, but the insured did not do so because the divorce would have been unlawful, by reason of the institutionalization, under the laws of the State in which the insured was domiciled at the time. Additionally, the prior spouse must have remained institutionalized up to the time of his or her death and the insured must have married you within 60 days after the prior spouse’s death.

(3) You and the insured were the natural parents of a child; or you were married to the insured when either of you adopted the other’s child or when both of you adopted a child who was then under 18 years old.

(4) In the month before you married the insured, you were entitled to or, if you had applied and had been old enough, could have been entitled to any of these benefits or payments: widow’s, widower’s, father’s (based on the record of a fully insured individual), mother’s (based on the record of a fully insured individual), wife’s, husband’s, parent’s, or disabled child’s benefits; or annuity payments under the Railroad Retirement Act for widows, widowers, parents, or children age 18 or older.

(b) You apply, except that you need not apply again if you meet one of the conditions in paragraphs (b)(1) through (4) of this section:

(1) You are entitled to wife’s or husband’s benefits for the month before the month in which the insured dies and you have attained full retirement age (as defined in §404.409) or you are not entitled to either old-age or disability benefits.

(2) You are entitled to mother’s or father’s benefits for the month before the month in which you attained full retirement age (as defined in §404.409).

(3) You are entitled to wife’s or husband’s benefits and to either old-age or disability benefits in the month before the month of the insured’s death, you are under full retirement age (as defined in §404.409) in the month of death, and you have filed a Certificate of Election in which you elect to receive reduced widow’s or widower’s benefits.

(4) You applied in 1990 for widow’s or widower’s benefits based on disability and you meet both of the conditions in paragraphs (b)(4)(i) and (ii) of this section:

(i) You were entitled to disability insurance benefits for December 1990, or eligible for supplemental security income or federally administered State supplementary payments, as specified in subparts B and T of part 416 of this chapter, respectively, for January 1991.

(ii) You were found not disabled for any month based on the definition of disability in §§404.1577 and 404.1578, as in effect prior to January 1991, but would have been entitled if the standard in §404.1505(a) had applied. (This exception to the requirement for filing an application is effective only with respect to benefits payable for months after December 1990.)

(c) You are at least 60 years old; or you are at least 50 years old and have a disability as defined in §404.1505 and you meet all of the conditions in paragraphs (c)(1) through (4) of this section:

(1) Your disability started not later than 7 years after the insured died or 7 years after you were last entitled to mother’s or father’s benefits or to widow’s or widower’s benefits based upon a disability, whichever occurred last.

(2) Your disability continued during a waiting period of 5 full consecutive months, unless months beginning with the first month of eligibility for supplemental security income or federally administered State supplementary payments are counted, as explained in the Exception in paragraph (c)(3) of this section. The waiting period may begin no earlier than the 17th month before you applied; the fifth month before the insured died; or if you were previously entitled to mother’s, father’s, widow’s, or widower’s benefits, the 5th month before your entitlement to benefits ended. If you were previously entitled to widow’s or widower’s benefits based upon a disability, no waiting period is required.

(3) Exception: For monthly benefits payable for months after December 1990, if you were or have been eligible for supplemental security income or federally administered State supplementary payments, as specified in subparts B and T of part 416 of this chapter, respectively, your disability need not have continued through a separate, full 5-month waiting period before you may begin receiving benefits. We will include as months of the 5-month waiting period the months in a period beginning with the first month you received supplemental security income or a federally administered State supplementary payment and continuing through all succeeding months, regardless of whether the months in the period coincide with the months in which your waiting period would have occurred, or whether you continued to be eligible for supplemental security income or a federally administered State supplementary payment after the period began, or whether you met the nondisability requirements for entitlement to widow’s or widower’s benefits. However, we will not pay you benefits under this provision for any month prior to January 1991.

(4) You have not previously received 36 months of payments based on disability when drug addiction or alcoholism was a contributing factor material to the determination of disability (as described in §404.1535), regardless of the number of entitlement periods you may have had, or your current application for widow’s or widower’s benefits is not based on a disability where drug addiction or alcoholism is a contributing factor material to the determination of disability.

(d) You are not entitled to an old-age benefit that is equal to or larger than the insured person’s primary insurance amount.

(e) You are unmarried, unless for benefits for months after 1983 you meet one of the conditions in paragraphs (e)(1) through (3) of this section:

(1) You remarried after you became 60 years old.

(2) You are now age 60 or older and you meet both of the conditions in paragraphs (e)(2)(i) and (ii) of this section:

(i) You remarried after attaining age 50 but before attaining age 60.

(ii) At the time of the remarriage, you were entitled to widow’s or widower’s benefits as a disabled widow or widower.

(3) You are now at least age 50, but not yet age 60 and you meet both of the conditions in paragraphs (e)(3)(i) and (ii) of this section:

(i) You remarried after attaining age 50.

(ii) You met the disability requirements in paragraph (c) of this section at the time of your remarriage (i.e., your disability began within the specified time and before your remarriage).

Social Security has two different benefit programs for individuals who are disabled.

• Disability Insurance Benefits (DIB, also known as SSDI, or Title 2 benefits); and
• Supplemental Security Income (SSI or Title 16 benefits).

Because of its name, it is a common misconception that must apply for “Disability Insurance” if you are disabled. Actually, both programs provide disability benefits.  

What is Disability Insurance Benefits (DIB)?

Generally, Disability Insurance Benefits are based on your payroll contribution to Social Security.  To qualify for DIB, you have to have earned enough Social Security credits, in the right time frame, by paying into Social Security through payroll taxes.  

There are several circumstances in which you may not have enough credits for Social Security Disability Insurance:

• If you have never worked.
• You worked so long ago that you are past your date last insured.  
• Instead of paying into Social Security, you paid into a state program (such as PERA). 

In each of these cases, you might not be eligible for Disability Insurance (DIB).
Please note that this is just an overview.  There are several circumstances in which you may still be eligible for Social Security Disability Insurance (DIB) even if you do not have not have enough credits under your own earnings, including:  

• Social Security Disability Insurance (DIB) based on a spouse’s, or former spouse’s, earnings.
• Widow/er’s benefits and Children’s benefits when a spouse/parent dies.
• DAC (Disabled Adult Child) benefits.

It is often a good idea to speak with Social Security if you think you may qualify for one of these other types of Social Security Disability Insurance Benefits (DIB).

What is Supplemental Security Income (SSI)?

Even if you are not eligible for DIB, you may still be able to apply for SSI.  

Supplemental Security Income is a Social Security program which provides disability benefits to the following groups:

• Children, 
• Adults who have never worked; and 
• Adults who do not have enough quarters of coverage, or are past their date last insured.

Between a Rock and Hard Place:

Is it possible to not be eligible for either Disability Insurance Benefits (DIB) or Supplemental Security Income (SSI)?

Sadly, yes.

If you cannot prove your disability prior to your date last insured, and your spouse makes too much money (or you have another problematic source of income), it is possible that you may not qualify for either DIB or SSI.  This is the proverbial between a rock and a hard place.

Which Program Should I Apply For?

In my opinion, apply for both.  Do not rule out your eligibility for a particular Social Security program. When you apply, Social Security will determine which benefit program(s) you are eligible for and will help you file the application. However, if you want to know if you will qualify for either program, Social Security has a website where you can see what benefits you may be eligible for.

But, Wait!  There’s More.

Once again, this is just a quick overview of DIB and SSI.  There are differences between Social Security Disability Insurance (DIB) and Supplemental Security Income (SSI) which I will address in other articles.

A child may be entitled to receive Social Security child’s benefits if a parent dies. These are called survivor’s benefits.  

However, under Social Security Regulations (20 CFR 404.352), the entitlement to child’s benefits may end for any of the following reasons.

1. You turn 18 years old and are not disabled or a full time student. Benefits end the month before the month in which you became 18 years old. Why does Social Security has to say, “the month before the month” rather than 2 months before? I have no idea.
2. You are 18 (or older) and your disability ends. Benefits end with the second month following the month in which the disability ends. Exception: your benefits may be continued after your impairment is no longer disabling if you are participating in a program of vocational rehabilitation services, employment services, or other support services and you meet other requirements described at the bottom of this page.
3. You turn 19 and are not disabled. If you have not yet gotten your diploma or certificate, benefits can be paid until the last month of the semester or quarter in which you turned 19. Actually, Social Security’s language is even more hairy. The regulation says the entitlement ends, “With the last month you are a full-time student or, if earlier, with the month before the month you become age 19, if you become 18 years old and you qualify as a full-time student who is not disabled. If you become age 19 in a month in which you have not completed the requirements for, or received, a diploma or equivalent certificate from an elementary or secondary school and you are required to enroll for each quarter or semester, we will find your entitlement ended with the month in which the quarter or semester in which you are enrolled ends. If the school you are attending does not have a quarter or semester system which requires reenrollment, we will find your entitlement to benefits ended with the month you complete the course or, if earlier, the first day of the third month following the month in which you become 19 years old.” Got all that?!
4. You are married. Benefits end “the month before the month” you marry. Exception: your benefits will not end if you are age 18 or older, disabled, and you marry a person entitled to child’s benefits based on disability or a person entitled to old-age, divorced wife’s, divorced husband’s, widow’s, widower’s, mother’s, father’s, parent’s, or disability benefits.
5. [omited - this reason for stopping benefits deals with cases of entitlement to child's benefits not when a parent is dead, but when a parent is alive and receiving either old-age or disability benefits. Since this article only deals with why child's benefits paid because of a death of a parent may terminate, this reason is beyond the scope of this article.]
6. If you die.

If you were disabled, but your impairment is no longer disabling, your benefits may be continued if you meet the following requirements. Note: I am quoting directly from the regulations here.

1. “You are participating in an appropriate program of vocational rehabilitation services, employment services, or other support services, as described in §404.327(a) and (b);
2. “You began participating in the program before the date your disability ended; and
3. “Social Security has determined under §404.328 that your completion of the program, or your continuation in the program for a specified period of time, will increase the likelihood that you will not have to return to the disability benefit rolls.”

If you qualify to continue to receive child’s benefits after your disability ends (as described above), Social Security may continue to pay your benefits until—

1. “The month in which you complete the program; or
2. “The month in which you stop participating in the program for any reason (see §404.327(b)); or
3. “The month in which Social Security determines under §404.328 that your continuing participation in the program will no longer increase the likelihood that you will not have to return to the disability benefit rolls.”

If you are 18 years old or over and disabled, and drug addiction or alcoholism is a material factor in the determination of your disability, there are special rules which may terminate your eligibility for child’s benefits. See §404.352(c).

Updated 04/30/09.

Children can be entitled to receive Social Security child’s benefits if the deceased parent was fully insured by Social Security and if they meet 5 tests:

1. The child is the insured person’s child. See §§404.355 through 404.359;
2. The child is dependent on the insured. See §§404.360 through 404.365;
3. The child applies for benefits;
4. The child is unmarried; and
5. The child is under age 18; – OR – 18 years old or older and has a disability that began before the child became 22 years old; – OR – the child is 18 years or older and qualifies for benefits as a full-time student in a primary or secondary school as described in §404.367.

See 20 CFR 404.350 for more information.

Updated 04/30/09.

If a parent dies, the surviving spouse may be eligible for benefits if he or she is caring for a the deceased’s child and the child is under 16 years old or disabled. These are called Mother’s and Father’s benefits.  See 20 CFR Section 404.339 for more information.

Mother’s and Father’s benefits are separate from the survivor’s benefits the child may be entitled to due to the death of a parent. This is a little known subset of Social Security benefits.  

There are a number of ways these benefits may stop:

1. You remarry. The exception to this is if you remarry someone entitled to old-age, disability, wife’s, husband’s, widow’s, widower’s, father’s, mother’s, parent’s or disabled child’s benefits. See. 20 CFR 404.341.
2. The child turns 16 (if the child is not disabled).
3. The child is 16 or older and Social Security decides that the child is no longer disabled (you do not actively supervise his or her activities and you do not make important decisions about is or her needs; or, it is not necessary for you to perform personal services for him or her such as dressing, feeding, and managing money that the child cannor do alone because of a disability). See 20 CFR 404.348.
4. The child is no longer in your care. See 20 CFR 404.349.

For more information see 20 CFR 404.339.

I thought children could get benefits until age 18 or 19?

Yes, that is true.  Children’s benefits due to a death of a parent continue until age 18 or 19 (depending on whether the child is in school).  However, mother’s or father’s benefits may end when the child turns 16. See 20 CFR 404.350

This also means that while the mother’s or father’s benefits may have ended, the child may still be eligible for children’s benefits for a few more years.

Updated 04/30/09.

Survivors’ benefits are a type of Social Security benefits paid to surviving family members when someone dies.  This may include benefits paid to the widow(er), parents or children.

In my experience, not a lot of attorneys take survivors’ benefits cases so it is difficult to get your questions answered:

• Am I, or my children, eligible for survivors’ benefits?
• When am I, or my children, eligible for survivors’ benefits?
• Social Security stopped my, or my children’s, survivors’ benefits.  Why?

Social Security has a Electronic Fact Sheet which provides a summary of who may be eligible to receive monthly benefits. If Social Security stops your survivors’ benefits, knowing who may be eligible can help you figure out if the cessation of benefits is proper or not.  

Some of the deceased’s family members may be eligible to receive Social Security benefits if the deceased person worked long enough under Social Security to qualify for benefits. 

Who can get survivors’ benefits?

1) A widow or widower age 60 or older (age 50 or older if disabled);

2) A surviving spouse at any age who is caring for the deceased’s child under age 16 or disabled;

3) An unmarried child of the deceased who is: a) Younger than age 18 (or age 18 or 19 if he or she is a full-time student in an elementary or secondary school); or b) Age 18 or older with a disability that began before age 22;

4) Parents, age 62 or older, who were dependent on the deceased for at least half of their support; and

5) A surviving divorced spouse, under certain circumstances.

These benefits are in addition to the one time “death benefit.”

A one-time payment of $255 can be paid to the surviving spouse if he or she was living with the deceased; or, if living apart, was receiving certain Social Security benefits on the deceased’s record. If there is no surviving spouse, the payment is made to a child who is eligible for benefits on the deceased’s record in the month of death.

Note:  this is just an overview.  There are specific requirements to qualify for each of these programs.